to Wearing a Chastity Device Pt3
Or everything you ever wanted to know about male chastity cages
Keyholder Solutions and Safety
The keyholder (whether a partner or yourself) plays a critical role in chastity. Safety is paramount, especially for emergency access.
1. Traditional Padlocks & Keys
♦ Keep a spare key in a secure but accessible location, like a locked box with a code only you or your partner know.
♦ For solo users, consider sealing the key in an envelope with a signature to prevent impulsive unlocking.
♦ The number one problem I have experienced with key padlocks is the keys breaking in the lock! Always use a quality padlock and key, if the key or keyhole is becoming degraded (they do get wet a lot or lathered in sad pre-cum tears) replace them immediately.
♦ The advantage of using a traditional metal padlock is that it provides a strong psychological sense of security, as the tangible, physical act of locking and unlocking feels definitive and can become a ritualistic act. The weight and feel of metal padlocks contribute to this perception, making them a trusted choice for securing belongings. Additionally, padlocks can serve as ownership markers when engraved with ‘Property of’ followed by a name or initials.
2. Numbered Plastic Lock Tags
Plastic lock tags are cuttable plastic numbered tags that can be used instead of locks, they are lighter than traditional padlocks and can be quickly removed in urgent or emergency situations. They are numbered so your keyholder will always know if this is done without their direct permission.
Recommended: Personally, I think Plastic Lock Tags are the perfect solution for beginners and short-term chastity play: they are lightweight, unbreakable, easily removable in an emergency, and numbered, so you’ll always know if they’ve been removed—it’s unlikely the sub will be able to find another. Better than padlocks, which can be picked or there might be ‘other keys’ in play!
